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By Melissa Ramsdell
When Laura Goodman and her husband, Burt, were first married, their
black lab, Nell, was like their first baby. They spoiled her with
plenty of affection. So when Laura became pregnant, she worried about
how Nell would handle having a real baby in the house.
On the
happy day when their son Reed arrived, the Goodmans mapped out a plan.
When Mom and baby arrived home, Burt stayed out in the hallway with
Reed, while Laura spent time alone with Nell. After a few minutes, they
brought the baby in and knelt down to let Nell see him.
"She
gave him a good little sniffing, then went to her bed to lay down,"
Laura recalls, adding that Nell's maternal instincts took over from
that day forward. "I just got the vibe she felt, 'Ok, this baby is part
of my pack now.' "
For other families, helping a pet make the
transition isn't as easy, says Nancy Peterson, of the Humane Society of
the United States. Dogs can become startled and snap at babies or jump
on the owners when a child is in their arms. Cats have been known to
mark their territory in the baby's nursery. "Pets tend to be creatures
of habit, so anything that upsets that routine can be distressing to
them," Peterson says.
She offers the following hints to prepare for your baby's arrival:
- Set up the baby's room early.
- To keep cats out of cribs, use double-sided tape on the mattress.
- Send a blanket home from the hospital so your pet can get used to the baby's scent.
- Once the baby arrives, give your pet lots of attention, special toys, or treats when your child is in the same room.
"Everybody's
bound to be a little stressed, but if you drastically reduce the
attention you've been giving to the pet you will start causing negative
associations with the baby," she adds. "You want your pet to think this
baby is the greatest thing in the world."
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About The Author
Melissa Ramsdell is a regular contributor to Your Baby Today.