Solving Children's Behavior Problems Hawaii

1. Start young. It is important to establish early in a child's life that there are certain rules and that he is expected to follow them. Be sure to maintain control of your home environment and firmly but kindly let your children know that you are in charge.
   
   
2. Be consistent. The rules cannot be constantly changing if you expect cooperation from your children. Establish a few ground rules and make it clear to your children exactly what the punishment will be for disobedience.
   
   
3. Follow through. If you tell your child that she will be grounded if she doesn't come home by curfew, you must mean it and implement the grounding if she disobeys. If you do not enforce your rules, there really aren't any rules.
   
   
4. Stay calm. Whether you are dealing with a young child's tantrum or the authority-challenging attitude of a teenager, you must not allow yourself to stoop to childish behavior--no yelling, hitting or name calling. Someone will be in control of the situation; make sure that it is you.
   
   
5. Age matters. Be sure that you have reasonable expectations for your child and tailor both your rules and your disciplinary measures to be appropriate to your child's age and developmental status. Some general guidelines:
   
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Author: Elizabeth Grace